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Mark Smith ([staff profile] mark) wrote in [site community profile] dw_maintenance2025-08-31 07:37 pm

Code deploy happening shortly

Per the [site community profile] dw_news post regarding the MS/TN blocks, we are doing a small code push shortly in order to get the code live. As per usual, please let us know if you see anything wonky.

There is some code cleanup we've been doing that is going out with this push but I don't think there is any new/reworked functionality, so it should be pretty invisible if all goes well.

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missdiane ([personal profile] missdiane) wrote2025-08-31 04:40 pm

Another box ticked off

Got a brief message from my gyno's office that the endometrial biopsy is benign so we're cleared to proceed with the hysterectomy without having to involve oncology.

The only things left before surgery are the ultrasound (HATE that damned wand) on the morning of the 8th and the type and screen near the end of September.

I notice on my move that my microwavable heating pads have disappeared but they were old and less effective. I also thought that I had an electric heating pad but that seems to have also been lost in the shuffle. So I need to get some replacements. One, because I'll want it after surgery (I hear it's very much needed) and the other because Emily has followed in the footsteps of her family and keeps the place colder than I'm used to. Blankets do a good bit but I'm getting cold old lady feet.

I'm pondering rather than the microwavable heating pads, getting an electric heating pad (with auto shut off) for the bed and then maybe an old fashioned hot water bottle for when I'm hanging out in the recliner since I won't have a nearby outlet there. Thoughts?
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Denise ([staff profile] denise) wrote in [site community profile] dw_news2025-08-31 12:28 pm

Mississippi site block, plus a small restriction on Tennessee new accounts

A reminder to everyone that starting tomorrow, we are being forced to block access to any IP address that geolocates to the state of Mississippi for legal reasons while we and Netchoice continue fighting the law in court. People whose IP addresses geolocate to Mississippi will only be able to access a page that explains the issue and lets them know that we'll be back to offer them service as soon as the legal risk to us is less existential.

The block page will include the apology but I'll repeat it here: we don't do geolocation ourselves, so we're limited to the geolocation ability of our network provider. Our anti-spam geolocation blocks have shown us that their geolocation database has a number of mistakes in it. If one of your friends who doesn't live in Mississippi gets the block message, there is nothing we can do on our end to adjust the block, because we don't control it. The only way to fix a mistaken block is to change your IP address to one that doesn't register as being in Mississippi, either by disconnecting your internet connection and reconnecting it (if you don't have a static IP address) or using a VPN.

In related news, the judge in our challenge to Tennessee's social media age verification, parental consent, and parental surveillance law (which we are also part of the fight against!) ruled last month that we had not met the threshold for a temporary injunction preventing the state from enforcing the law while the court case proceeds.

The Tennesee law is less onerous than the Mississippi law and the fines for violating it are slightly less ruinous (slightly), but it's still a risk to us. While the fight goes on, we've decided to prevent any new account signups from anyone under 18 in Tennessee to protect ourselves against risk. We do not need to block access from the whole state: this only applies to new account creation.

Because we don't do any geolocation on our users and our network provider's geolocation services only apply to blocking access to the site entirely, the way we're implementing this is a new mandatory question on the account creation form asking if you live in Tennessee. If you do, you'll be unable to register an account if you're under 18, not just the under 13 restriction mandated by COPPA. Like the restrictions on the state of Mississippi, we absolutely hate having to do this, we're sorry, and we hope we'll be able to undo it as soon as possible.

Finally, I'd like to thank every one of you who's commented with a message of support for this fight or who's bought paid time to help keep us running. The fact we're entirely user-supported and you all genuinely understand why this fight is so important for everyone is a huge part of why we can continue to do this work. I've also sent a lot of your comments to the lawyers who are fighting the actual battles in court, and they find your wholehearted support just as encouraging and motivating as I do. Thank you all once again for being the best users any social media site could ever hope for. You make me proud and even more determined to yell at state attorneys general on your behalf.

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missdiane ([personal profile] missdiane) wrote2025-08-30 05:07 pm
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Small accomplishments

Little by little things are becoming more home-like. I wish that my knees and back would cooperate even more so I can help get more done. But I did get some small things done over the last couple of weeks:

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I put up 3M hooks to put a curtain rod on while Emily was in Newark with her niece and when the curtains arrived yesterday, I put those up. The blinds that are there keep getting stuck and while it's not a big deal to have the window there, when I have the surgery, that window is right outside the bathroom and well...a little modesty block in case and I thought that the pattern went really well with the yellow walls.
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Also while Emily was in Newark, I installed stick-on-holders and used a tension rod so that I can hang things like the kitchen dish gloves, towels and extra potholders. Trying to drape things over the kitchen faucet or along the side of the sink just wasn't getting the job done.

I had also intended to get one more project done but when the box arrived via UPS, there was a massive hole stabbed in the box and I could tell the contents were damaged so I called Home Depot to ask what to do and they told me to return it to the store, which I did. I also ordered a new one while there to have shipped to store instead of the house, just in case. We picked it up this morning and I sat on the floor with the tools and installed the pull out drawer for more organization.
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A few weeks ago Emily laid on her back like a car mechanic to get the lazy susan in the corner out. That thing was SO useless. It wobbled and didn't turn well and you had to practically duck under the counter to get anything off it. So instead, now that corner has a bin with rice and some other things that I don't need often. If I need to get them out, since the pull out drawer doesn't have a wide top shelf, I can get things out of that corner.

So bit by bit
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missdiane ([personal profile] missdiane) wrote2025-08-29 12:52 pm
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The new old table and today's bounty

Emily's sister is using their Mom's trust to have organizers do things in the old house. We both think it's a waste of time and money and hopefully it isn't too expensive. We also don't see the point since the niece is living (RENT FREE) in the downstairs which has been almost completely cleared and Emily paid the cleaning gal to do a deep clean of the kitchen and bathroom. I think we are hoping that her niece doesn't get past a year and doesn't like living there so that they can just sell the damned place.

Anyway, we had to move our existing (Emily's IKEA) dining table to the basement since her sister had movers bring over the old family table and the sideboard.
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The photo that Emily sent me earlier today. Her sister shut my bedroom door while the moving crew did their thing which was nice so that JonJon was less spooked.

The IKEA table was ok but honestly, it's pretty beat up since Emily let her sister use it for years and the kids did a number on it. So once we get the basement straightened out which we're hoping to make some headway this holiday weekend at constructing shelves for storage down there, we'll use the dining table as a place to fold laundry.

It would be nice to get the old family table restored but I've no clue what kind of folks do that sort of work. In the meantime, we'll get some tablecloths and such to use. It has pull out extensions and it's rather sturdy so I don't mind the replacement and I know the table means a lot to Emily. It's also nice to have the sideboard since Emily has plenty of bits from her Mom like Wedgewood.

I had to bring my cane this morning to work since my left knee is being especially wobbly and stiff at the same time and since I was fighting off sciatic pain the last couple of days. It was a challenge at Rutgers Gardens with the grass and gravel but I managed to go there to get stuff from the CSA and a few other bits.

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The bicolor corn and early season gala apples and the loaf of seeded whole wheat bread were purchased with cash from other vendors but the other items were from the Student Farm CSA and only $21 off my balance (a cabbage called Tokyo bekana, chard, green beans, cucumbers, red potatoes, and mild peppers). I've gone at least five times with armloads of produce and still have $131 left on my $200 CSA after today. Was 100% worth it, even if it is mildly inconvenient to get over there on Fridays.
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missdiane ([personal profile] missdiane) wrote2025-08-26 02:50 pm
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Xanax to the rescue

Still pretty doped up and will lie down for a nap soon but taking one and a half xanax is what made the biopsy doable because DAMN that hurt like hell. Results should be in about a week to make sure that the surgery Oct 1 can be done without involving oncology and stuff.

Post procedure high quality chocolate was the best medicine.
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Denise ([staff profile] denise) wrote in [site community profile] dw_news2025-08-26 12:24 am

Mississippi legal challenge: beginning 1 September, we will need to geoblock Mississippi IPs

I'll start with the tl;dr summary to make sure everyone sees it and then explain further: As of September 1, we will temporarily be forced to block access to Dreamwidth from all IP addresses that geolocate to Mississippi for legal reasons. This block will need to continue until we either win the legal case entirely, or the district court issues another injunction preventing Mississippi from enforcing their social media age verification and parental consent law against us.

Mississippi residents, we are so, so sorry. We really don't want to do this, but the legal fight we and Netchoice have been fighting for you had a temporary setback last week. We genuinely and honestly believe that we're going to win it in the end, but the Fifth Circuit appellate court said that the district judge was wrong to issue the preliminary injunction back in June that would have maintained the status quo and prevented the state from enforcing the law requiring any social media website (which is very broadly defined, and which we definitely qualify as) to deanonymize and age-verify all users and obtain parental permission from the parent of anyone under 18 who wants to open an account.

Netchoice took that appellate ruling up to the Supreme Court, who declined to overrule the Fifth Circuit with no explanation -- except for Justice Kavanaugh agreeing that we are likely to win the fight in the end, but saying that it's no big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime.

Needless to say, it's a big deal to let the state enforce the law in the meantime. The Mississippi law is a breathtaking state overreach: it forces us to verify the identity and age of every person who accesses Dreamwidth from the state of Mississippi and determine who's under the age of 18 by collecting identity documents, to save that highly personal and sensitive information, and then to obtain a permission slip from those users' parents to allow them to finish creating an account. It also forces us to change our moderation policies and stop anyone under 18 from accessing a wide variety of legal and beneficial speech because the state of Mississippi doesn't like it -- which, given the way Dreamwidth works, would mean blocking people from talking about those things at all. (And if you think you know exactly what kind of content the state of Mississippi doesn't like, you're absolutely right.)

Needless to say, we don't want to do that, either. Even if we wanted to, though, we can't: the resources it would take for us to build the systems that would let us do it are well beyond our capacity. You can read the sworn declaration I provided to the court for some examples of how unworkable these requirements are in practice. (That isn't even everything! The lawyers gave me a page limit!)

Unfortunately, the penalties for failing to comply with the Mississippi law are incredibly steep: fines of $10,000 per user from Mississippi who we don't have identity documents verifying age for, per incident -- which means every time someone from Mississippi loaded Dreamwidth, we'd potentially owe Mississippi $10,000. Even a single $10,000 fine would be rough for us, but the per-user, per-incident nature of the actual fine structure is an existential threat. And because we're part of the organization suing Mississippi over it, and were explicitly named in the now-overturned preliminary injunction, we think the risk of the state deciding to engage in retaliatory prosecution while the full legal challenge continues to work its way through the courts is a lot higher than we're comfortable with. Mississippi has been itching to issue those fines for a while, and while normally we wouldn't worry much because we're a small and obscure site, the fact that we've been yelling at them in court about the law being unconstitutional means the chance of them lumping us in with the big social media giants and trying to fine us is just too high for us to want to risk it. (The excellent lawyers we've been working with are Netchoice's lawyers, not ours!)

All of this means we've made the extremely painful decision that our only possible option for the time being is to block Mississippi IP addresses from accessing Dreamwidth, until we win the case. (And I repeat: I am absolutely incredibly confident we'll win the case. And apparently Justice Kavanaugh agrees!) I repeat: I am so, so sorry. This is the last thing we wanted to do, and I've been fighting my ass off for the last three years to prevent it. But, as everyone who follows the legal system knows, the Fifth Circuit is gonna do what it's gonna do, whether or not what they want to do has any relationship to the actual law.

We don't collect geolocation information ourselves, and we have no idea which of our users are residents of Mississippi. (We also don't want to know that, unless you choose to tell us.) Because of that, and because access to highly accurate geolocation databases is extremely expensive, our only option is to use our network provider's geolocation-based blocking to prevent connections from IP addresses they identify as being from Mississippi from even reaching Dreamwidth in the first place. I have no idea how accurate their geolocation is, and it's possible that some people not in Mississippi might also be affected by this block. (The inaccuracy of geolocation is only, like, the 27th most important reason on the list of "why this law is practically impossible for any site to comply with, much less a tiny site like us".)

If your IP address is identified as coming from Mississippi, beginning on September 1, you'll see a shorter, simpler version of this message and be unable to proceed to the site itself. If you would otherwise be affected, but you have a VPN or proxy service that masks your IP address and changes where your connection appears to come from, you won't get the block message, and you can keep using Dreamwidth the way you usually would.

On a completely unrelated note while I have you all here, have I mentioned lately that I really like ProtonVPN's service, privacy practices, and pricing? They also have a free tier available that, although limited to one device, has no ads or data caps and doesn't log your activity, unlike most of the free VPN services out there. VPNs are an excellent privacy and security tool that every user of the internet should be familiar with! We aren't affiliated with Proton and we don't get any kickbacks if you sign up with them, but I'm a satisfied customer and I wanted to take this chance to let you know that.

Again, we're so incredibly sorry to have to make this announcement, and I personally promise you that I will continue to fight this law, and all of the others like it that various states are passing, with every inch of the New Jersey-bred stubborn fightiness you've come to know and love over the last 16 years. The instant we think it's less legally risky for us to allow connections from Mississippi IP addresses, we'll undo the block and let you know.

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missdiane ([personal profile] missdiane) wrote2025-08-22 09:14 am
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How can I abandon that face?

Late this afternoon I'm meeting Emily and one of her nieces in Newark for the GDragon concert. They are already staying in a hotel there and aren't checking out until Sunday. Emily was talking about having me come earlier in the day to meet them but uh...ain't got anyone to feed the boy. He's over 13 years old and going to be freaked out enough that I won't be getting home until after midnight. So I'm taking the 4:44 train that gets into Newark Penn at 5:17. Doors open at 6 so that is more than plenty time to hobble over to their hotel next to the venue to meet them (and drop off snacks for later) and then go out and hobnob with the fellow concertgoers. At KPop concerts, fellow fans make trinkets to give away (things like beaded bracelets, stickers, other little art projects) so hopefully we can get a cute thing or two.

I decided to also pre-book a Lyft to drop me off at the station rather than parking there. Emily said since it'll be nuts right after the concert and so she'll drive me home (and then drive back to Newark? Ok, you do you. I'm not going to argue with that). We'll wait a while in their hotel room having the snacks that I will have brought until it looks less crazy outside.

My knees have been unpredictable lately, the left one especially, so I'm going to tape them up and also bring my cane. The last time I took the train into NYC last weekend, I purchased the "disabled" tickets since I am a card-carrying member. It's less than half the price which is also helpful - and in this case justifies the Lyft to the station.

Hopefully I don't stress much and can just enjoy the concert. Goodness knows tickets were expensive as sin.