Bitch got some audacity

Jun. 26th, 2025 05:40 pm
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I have no clue what her end game is but Emily's sister needs to back the fuck off. Ok, the dumbass birthday party for the sister was over two weeks ago. Then we hosted again the next week for the twin nibblings' birthdays. The first one I posted about how it was awkward but seemed to go ok until I was in the bedroom and heard her sister throwing a hissy fit and Emily's older niece started crying. Whaaatever. Honey, keep that up and you'll soon be wondering why your kids went no contact once they're able to fend for themselves.

The twins party seemed a little better, though I could see her sister looking supremely pissy when we dared have pleasant conversation with her sister's ex. Good grief.

So today, Emily had to meet up with her sister at their Mom's nursing home to talk about her care. Her sister decided to get there at least an hour earlier than she told Emily (clearly a passive aggressive move and attempt to look like Emily is a shitty daughter). They're pondering whether it's time for hospice care. Neither of them know what that exactly that entails but evidently that must not have come up in conversation with the folks at the home. They did talk about if she has a fall or something, to not do any sort of large procedures, etc. Anyway, Emily's sister must've asked Emily to have lunch after.

Wherein her sister started IN on Emily. Trying to shame her for things such as the fact that we didn't have plastic containers for them to take home leftovers from her party (BITCH, WE WEREN'T EVEN TOTALLY MOVED IN) and supposedly how Emily didn't greet the current wife at the Twins' thing and yadda yadda yadda. She clearly didn't like that Emily was NOT about to apologize since she did NOTHING wrong but her sister doubled down and Emily told me she got up, told her sister "fuck you" and walked out, leaving her with the bill.

I told Emily I was proud of her for standing up to her sister but I know it bothers her. It seems to me that her sister isn't happy with the choices she made and is projecting it all over everyone. Well everyone is tired of your shit, Nora.

Evidently her sister tried taking charge when their dad died several years ago, trying to tell the lawyers that she was the executor, when Emily is the primary and Nora is the secondary. She can't be trusted. If her mom doesn't have long left, once the dust settles and they've split things, I think her sister is going to be surprised that Emily won't want anything more to do with her gaslighting and abuse.

Statin alternative

Jun. 26th, 2025 01:16 pm
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Received a call from the doc's office saying the doc recommended Zetia and would I consider it. I did the quickest of googles and agreed to it. I'm not sure if the doc needs to call and talk to me or if they'll just send through a script.

Anyhoo, anyone take Zetia and if so, what has your experience been like? Looks like that I'll have no choice but to buckle down on a healthy and low-fat diet on that one. Well, that's fine.

Gotta keep the cat entertained

Jun. 22nd, 2025 09:30 am
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We bought a bird feeder and were debating where to hang it so I ordered a 92" hook. So far the squirrels are THRILLED.
squirrel inna birdfeeder.JPEG
They have also been partaking of water from the birdbath that is clamped to the deck. There was a black squirrel romping around the deck this morning and JonJon was FOCUSED

Handoff is Monday! Woo!

Jun. 21st, 2025 11:15 am
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My right knee (the "good" one that is becoming not so good) has decided to swell up all nicely from the tons of activity yesterday with the 2nd junk hauling round and then loading my car to the brim with stuff and then moving it inside the house even with Emily's niece's help. Thankfully, Emily was awesome early this morning and helped me get the rest of the crap out of the apartment that wouldn't fit into my car yesterday while I bustle-shuffled around and cleaned the stove and the sinks and put a little touch up paint on the fridge. The wet swiffering on the floor grossed me out but that's what happens when you move out the stuff that you can't move to clean under. It looks "good enough" for a place that didn't have new appliances and such when I moved in nearly a decade ago. Hopefully I'll get the lion's share of my deposit back.

I texted the maintenance/super and arranged a time of 9am Monday to do the walkthrough and key handoff. I'm sure it's going to be a quick one since tomorrow is supposed to get near 100 and Monday even worse. I left all the blinds down except I think I forgot the kitchen. Whatever, I'm not doing those damned stairs again. I'm absolutely THRILLED that I only have one more time up and down the blasted things.

Yesterday I finally received my check from my cut of Dad's life insurance. Sis had previously sent me $500 via zelle since she thought maybe the check she got was the only one but then I got one yesterday for $1023 so I sent her back the $500. We don't know whether our brother got a third piece of it and we're not going to ask. Having the extra funds will help with the extermination of the carpenter ants at the house that will happen on Tuesday (about $650). He couldn't find the source and there fortunately wasn't any considerable damage he could see but it had to be treated in the past and with the number of them we've been seeing, especially in the kitchen, yeah, it needs treatment. They'll spray around the outside perimeter and in the basement and will put baits in the kitchen. Nothing unsafe for JonJon (he is NOT ALLOWED in the basement anyway).

After a trip to the Stop & Shop mostly for drinks, Emily and I are inside today. We may sneak out early tomorrow morning to get some odds and ends at Wegmans tomorrow morning but other than that, with temps to be near and over 100, we're hunkering down. I'll have to see how the lined curtains in my office hold up when I return on Tuesday. Also depends on whether Elaine leaves the AC running. We're supposed to turn it off when we leave but she rarely remembers. I'll be digging out my coolest work acceptable dresses to wear through the nasty heat.

Hope everyone is doing well. All the hugs

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